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June 6, 2010, 5:15 pm
Should This Be the Last Generation?
By PETER SINGER

The Stone is a forum for contemporary philosophers on issues both timely and timeless.


Have you ever thought about whether to have a child? If so, what factors entered into your decision? Was it whether having children would be good for you, your partner and others close to the possible child, such as children you may already have, or perhaps your parents? For most people contemplating reproduction, those are the dominant questions. Some may also think about the desirability of adding to the strain that the nearly seven billion people already here are putting on our planet’s environment. But very few ask whether coming into existence is a good thing for the child itself. Most of those who consider that question probably do so because they have some reason to fear that the child’s life would be especially difficult — for example, if they have a family history of a devastating illness, physical or mental, that cannot yet be detected prenatally.

All this suggests that we think it is wrong to bring into the world a child whose prospects for a happy, healthy life are poor, but we don’t usually think the fact that a child is likely to have a happy, healthy life is a reason for bringing the child into existence. This has come to be known among philosophers as “the asymmetry” and it is not easy to justify. But rather than go into the explanations usually proffered — and why they fail — I want to raise a related problem. How good does life have to be, to make it reasonable to bring a child into the world? Is the standard of life experienced by most people in developed nations today good enough to make this decision unproblematic, in the absence of specific knowledge that the child will have a severe genetic disease or other problem?

The 19th-century German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer held that even the best life possible for humans is one in which we strive for ends that, once achieved, bring only fleeting satisfaction. New desires then lead us on to further futile struggle and the cycle repeats itself.

Schopenhauer’s pessimism has had few defenders over the past two centuries, but one has recently emerged, in the South African philosopher David Benatar, author of a fine book with an arresting title: “Better Never to Have Been: The Harm of Coming into Existence.” One of Benatar’s arguments trades on something like the asymmetry noted earlier. To bring into existence someone who will suffer is, Benatar argues, to harm that person, but to bring into existence someone who will have a good life is not to benefit him or her. Few of us would think it right to inflict severe suffering on an innocent child, even if that were the only way in which we could bring many other children into the world. Yet everyone will suffer to some extent, and if our species continues to reproduce, we can be sure that some future children will suffer severely. Hence continued reproduction will harm some children severely, and benefit none.

Benatar also argues that human lives are, in general, much less good than we think they are. We spend most of our lives with unfulfilled desires, and the occasional satisfactions that are all most of us can achieve are insufficient to outweigh these prolonged negative states. If we think that this is a tolerable state of affairs it is because we are, in Benatar’s view, victims of the illusion of pollyannaism. This illusion may have evolved because it helped our ancestors survive, but it is an illusion nonetheless. If we could see our lives objectively, we would see that they are not something we should inflict on anyone.

Here is a thought experiment to test our attitudes to this view. Most thoughtful people are extremely concerned about climate change. Some stop eating meat, or flying abroad on vacation, in order to reduce their carbon footprint. But the people who will be most severely harmed by climate change have not yet been conceived. If there were to be no future generations, there would be much less for us to feel to guilty about.

So why don’t we make ourselves the last generation on earth? If we would all agree to have ourselves sterilized then no sacrifices would be required — we could party our way into extinction!

Of course, it would be impossible to get agreement on universal sterilization, but just imagine that we could. Then is there anything wrong with this scenario? Even if we take a less pessimistic view of human existence than Benatar, we could still defend it, because it makes us better off — for one thing, we can get rid of all that guilt about what we are doing to future generations — and it doesn’t make anyone worse off, because there won’t be anyone else to be worse off.

Is a world with people in it better than one without? Put aside what we do to other species — that’s a different issue. Let’s assume that the choice is between a world like ours and one with no sentient beings in it at all. And assume, too — here we have to get fictitious, as philosophers often do — that if we choose to bring about the world with no sentient beings at all, everyone will agree to do that. No one’s rights will be violated — at least, not the rights of any existing people. Can non-existent people have a right to come into existence?

I do think it would be wrong to choose the non-sentient universe. In my judgment, for most people, life is worth living. Even if that is not yet the case, I am enough of an optimist to believe that, should humans survive for another century or two, we will learn from our past mistakes and bring about a world in which there is far less suffering than there is now. But justifying that choice forces us to reconsider the deep issues with which I began. Is life worth living? Are the interests of a future child a reason for bringing that child into existence? And is the continuance of our species justifiable in the face of our knowledge that it will certainly bring suffering to innocent future human beings?
One of my major reasons for not having had children was not to doom them to this dying planet. Not to say that, were this planet ideal, I WOULD have had children; never in a gazillion years. But to have children with full knowledge that their lives might not be worth living? Get real. No way.
One of my reasons was that, in fact, I did NOT feel a child I produced would have a good quality of life. For one thing, the world today is largely a depressing place. The deteriorating health of our planet and of our collective psyche are not helping.

Then, we come around to ME. I do not bond easily with other people. I require a lot of peace and quiet and down time. I have approximately the patience of a hornet. I do not enjoy the presence of children, like, at all. While I would never harm a child--much less one I produced--I do not feel I'd be a very warm parent. I simply have no desire to "love a child." No child deserves to live that way. Far too many already do.

I don't like the assertion of this author, however, that humans are the only sentient life forms. I believe ALL life forms are sentient, to some degree. Not having people here would simply make the planet a healthier place, improving the quality of life of the OTHER sentient beings here.

Jen M.
I'm with Jen. Why wouldn't I have a kid?

First of is me. I am not meant to be a parent. I know this because I grew impatient when I temporarily had a cat. I like cats but it was annoying when I'd be trying to do something and the cat would interrupt. With the cat though there was the option of closing the door. With a kid that would be cruelty.

The point of affection was made. In my family we almost never showed any signs of affection. In fact the very idea of a hug was almost unacceptable and we never kissed or did any sort of physical contact. It's a telling statement that long-timers will know that I'm very skittish with hugs. Even handshakes are not initiated by me even though I'll return them if offered by the other person. This is not healthy and I'd never inflict this on someone.

Second is an excellent point made above. Living standards are declining in the US for many reasons and on many levels. The fact is that Gen-X will never have the same lifestyle as the Boomers, and Gen-Y will never have the same lifestyle as Gen-X which is pretty sad. I really feel for the newly minted graduates that are about to have reality give them a right hook to the face after being told the world is their oyster.

Finally, is the fact that I just couldn't deal with society and a child of mine. There is no way in hell I'd ever send my kid to a public school because of how horrible they are now. I'd be a home-schooler simply because I'd want the kid to read and write. I'd never be able to let a kid join the Scouts because of their bigoted attitudes. I'd never be able to let my kid play sports because of the horribly competitive attitude. The thing is that if I did this, that kid might score 100% on every test they take but they'd never survive in the real world.
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