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Hello? I eat there! I do not want to see that! Cover up or find a private spot.

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Idiots.

Jen M.

Thank god the second comment was a voice of reason there. Now let's see if all the BF moos jump all over her.

This is what I hate about the militant BFers. I have no problem with a woman breastfeeding if she is discreet about it. It's the ones who think they should be able to do it anywhere they want that bother me.

Jeezus....I wish they would just learn to feed their f'ing kid before they leave the house and let all of us paying customers avoid the spectacle of their kid sucking on their boob. We don't need to see it, it's not beautiful or special, it's just plain gross to a lot of us!

And the kid was 11mo....so almost a year old and they NEED to bf RIGHT THEN or what? the kid will die???.....it's almost a year old...it's eating solid food for cripes sake....give it a breadstick and save the boob show for home!

GR8PYRZ Wrote:We don't need to see it, it's not beautiful or special, it's just plain gross to a lot of us!

Thank you. That is my opinion exactly.

Not everyone thinks your gross moo boobs are beautiful or "natural."

Urinating is a natural and necessary bodily function too. So why don't we put a big bucket in the foyer so guys can just whip out their wangs and piss away happily?

And speaking of gross bodies... it is me, or does anyone else want to vomit at the "Shape of a Mother: website?

If anything that site should encourage being child free. I have a hard enough time looking good, I don't need a fetus ripping through my body and leaving it war torn... thankyouverymuch...

jmk3482 Wrote:Urinating is a natural and necessary bodily function too. So why don't we put a big bucket in the foyer so guys can just whip out their wangs and piss away happily?

ROFL! I love the image that brings to mind. And too true.

jmk3482 Wrote:And speaking of gross bodies... it is me, or does anyone else want to vomit at the "Shape of a Mother: website?

If anything that site should encourage being child free. I have a hard enough time looking good, I don't need a fetus ripping through my body and leaving it war torn... thankyouverymuch...

That website is sick! My eyes!!! They are burned.

Oh, gross. Why did I click on that link?

I hate these breastfeeding Nazis. People EAT at restaurants! I don't want someone at the next table getting their BODILY FLUIDS (which breastmilk IS) all over the place. Like it or not, breastmilk is a biohazard. It carries germs and disease. It's hazardous to the health of the other patrons. Just as I wouldn't want someone else's semen, mucus, urine, blood, or feces in my food, I don't want someone's breastmilk there, either.

I also don't get how they're all "but it's TOTALLY DIFFERENT than someone taking a shit!" No, it's not. It's the same fucking thing. Both are natural bodily functions required for survival. Well, except breastfeeding isn't required. There is formula, after all.

Why yes, I hate breastfeeding Nazis, why do you ask?

Nadleeh, my objections are exactly the same as yours: It's a bodily fluid. It's gross.

It's not like these moos don't have time to feed their brats BEFORE going to lunch. Geez!

I did not even click on the link posted by JMK. I just don't want to know.

Jen M.

The thing is they make clothing and blankets that are designed so the nursing mother can do it discreetly. Apparently, these militant BFing mothers do not understand that concept.

I still think breastfeeding is weird and creepy. There is something about it that disturbs me and I imagine that it always will. But if a mother wants to breastfeed, they make blankets so she can cover up while she's doing it in public. There is no need to whip out your tit in public unless of course you want to be an exhibitionist and get yourself in the newspapers (which I think is what most of these woman are doing).

Like it or not, breasts are still seen as a sexual object in our society. That is not going to go away just because a woman chooses to breastfeed. A man's penis also serves as a way to urinate, but do we as a culture find public urination acceptable? No. In some cultures yes, maybe. But they make toilets for that purpose just as they make nursing blankets for mothers.

And also the fact that this was done in a restaurant...there has to be some sort of health codes about that. Breast milk is not sanitary. It's a bodily fluid that can harbor germs and diseases that can be spread to the nursing infant. People don't need to deal with that while they're trying to choke down a meal.

Bittercat Wrote:Nadleeh, my objections are exactly the same as yours: It's a bodily fluid. It's gross.

It's not like these moos don't have time to feed their brats BEFORE going to lunch. Geez!

I did not even click on the link posted by JMK. I just don't want to know.

Jen M.

I know! I can't stand when someone is all, "Get over it, it's just a BOOB!" Uh, the boob has nothing to do with it! I don't care if someone has their boobs out. I can look away. I can't, however, get someone's bodily fluids out of something I've touched or ingested.

The boob is not always the issue.

I'd rather the boob than the shitbag on the table.

Aren't there health codes against that type of thing??

The underlying question is, why bring an infant to a restaurant at all? Leave it with a sitter, or get your food to go. Sooner or later a human of that age will do something to annoy other diners, whether it involves a boob, or two, or not.

(09-06-2009 12:56 AM)eslbee Wrote: [ -> ]The underlying question is, why bring an infant to a restaurant at all? Leave it with a sitter, or get your food to go. Sooner or later a human of that age will do something to annoy other diners, whether it involves a boob, or two, or not.

Because that would involve three things:

1. Planning on the part of the breeders which obviously they don't have since they have a kid.
2. Money to pay the babysitter and god knows how they whine about not having money.
3. Having to actually sacrifice instead of assuming their lives will never change with kids.

Tell me again why we can't have a sterilization program for DNA lines I personally find irritating?

(09-05-2009 09:10 PM)jeaniemarie Wrote: [ -> ]Aren't there health codes against that type of thing??

I don't believe so. Rather there are federal laws and state laws that allow a woman to BF in public no matter what. So the moos assume that means they can whip out their boobs anywhere they please and if they get any crap about it, the law is on their side.

And no, breast milk is not sterile, but urine is.

I had an interesting restaurant experience today. We were out of town and went to a restaurant we knew is quite popular with the locals in that town. There are two sections, and we were seated in a section that seemed to have a lot of older people and couples. After we ate and were leaving, I went to the washroom, which was located around the corner in the other area. When I walked through the other area, I noticed that seated at all of the taken tables were families with kids. Clearly that area was designated as the "family with kids" area. Finally, someone had the brains to think of this. That's been one of my gripes about eating out. Everyone else assumes that people don't mind sitting next to other people's kids who are screeching, throwing tantrums, and crying babies while dining out.

(09-06-2009 11:12 PM)Dog Holliday Wrote: [ -> ]I had an interesting restaurant experience today. We were out of town and went to a restaurant we knew is quite popular with the locals in that town. There are two sections, and we were seated in a section that seemed to have a lot of older people and couples. After we ate and were leaving, I went to the washroom, which was located around the corner in the other area. When I walked through the other area, I noticed that seated at all of the taken tables were families with kids. Clearly that area was designated as the "family with kids" area. Finally, someone had the brains to think of this. That's been one of my gripes about eating out. Everyone else assumes that people don't mind sitting next to other people's kids who are screeching, throwing tantrums, and crying babies while dining out.

Totally my thought as well! I should be able to enjoy dinner without your crotch fruit behind me screaming.

The thing that bugs me most about these tit nazis is..... were they discreetly bf-ing in the restaurant, there's NO way moo would have been told to leave. But no, she's an exhibitionist and she wants to make her little political statement. It's pathetic, really.