12-02-2008, 04:10 PM
I'm sorry you're having to deal with all this shit. I've found every now and then I have to sit DH down and tell him flat out something has to change, or I'm not going to put with some sort of shit he's been doing anymore. Sometimes he tries to laugh it off, like he can't see that I'm about to fly into a rage over the issue. There's nothing I hate worse than not being taken seriously and being brushed off. He usually ends up regretting doing that, because I make him regret it. Sometimes the issue at hand, whatever it is, comes up for discussion more than once, but after a few times he gets it and a change is made. Unfortunately it takes time.